I have a similar thought-process and sometimes I do feel bad about it. At the same time, I expect the person I am with to keep themselves in relatively good shape, as I do myself. As I've gotten older I've learned to accept that I have certain preferences and that it is okay to have them; we all do. You can't change what you're attracted to. Great piece Zoe.

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