Wow, reading this story enraged me. I too work at a casino and have dealt with the same money-driven victim shaming behaviour one too many times.
There are way too many “Rob’s” out there. Good for you standing up for all women.
P.S. Please don’t ever feel silly for laughing in an uncomfortable situation. It’s a coping mechanism and we’ve all been there. It does not invalidate the true severity of the situation.